This is the question. You might wonder why I ask this question as it was proven long ago that masturbation is not only pleasurable but healthy as well. No one now thinks that masturbation can make you blind or mentally ill or cause hair growing on palms or something else.

Women are even recommended to masturbate, and this can be understood. While masturbating a woman gets more familiar with her body, with her sexual response, with her erogenous zones and with the ways she can achieve orgasm. Actually masturbation is the best way to teach your body to orgasm and to satisfy your need for sex when you do not have a regular sex partner - at least it is much better than one night stand.

But at the same time I am convinced that masturbation can be harmful for both men and women. I mean that sometimes people get so used to masturbation that they cannot orgasm during partner sex. This happens, for instance to women who prefer masturbating with their legs pressed together, for example by squeezing the thighs. Thus during partner sex, which often implies positions with legs apart they cannot orgasm whatever their partner does! So I do recommend women to vary masturbation techniques.

Whatever masturbation technique you prefer do masturbate with your legs apart and necessarily masturbate with such adult sex toys as dildos and vibrators, I mean those sex toys which are intended to insert in the vagina. Thus you will get used to getting pleasure of the sensation that something is moving inside your vagina. Thus you will realize what you like most and will enjoy partner sex. Do not limit yourself to only one masturbation technique!

The same can be said about men. Those men who are used to apply a great deal of pressure when masturbating then cannot cum during partner sex as it does not provide so much pressure. Masturbate but do not overdo masturbation!

Don't you think that masturbation as well as partner sex can become boring? Don't you think that it requires novelties, experiments and spicing up? I do think so, that is why I am always in search of new ways to masturbate and I want to share my experience with you.

First of all I want to say that I use plenty of positions for masturbation. I masturbate lying on my back, sitting in the arm-chair, standing with my legs apart, standing on my knees, etc. Each position gives me different sensations and even different orgasms. I do recommend you to experiment with positions.

As well I recommend you to try unusual for you ways to masturbate. For instance, did you ever masturbate in water? This is really amazing! You can take a bath and get dual pleasure - why to stay idle in the tube? Why not to stimulate your erogenous zones there and not to achieve great orgasm? What for me, I do the following: I turn on the water and position myself so that the water flows directly on my clitoris - this is very nice clitoral stimulation! Try it!

By the way, you as well can masturbate with sex toys in water. There are plenty of nice waterproof sex toys for your pleasure. What about playing with a vibrator in tub? I do so, and I have plenty of waterproof vibrators for this purpose!

What to sex toys, I do think that there should be plenty of them. You are very likely to get fed up with a sex toy if you use only it day by day. The more various sex toys, the better! I have plenty of various dildos and vibrators. I do love female sex toys such as clitoral vibrators and vaginal balls and I buy a new sex toy nearly every month. Masturbation cannot be boring if you are a creative person! Explore your body and have fun!

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